discuss Were you forced to say "I love you"?

[Ashake]

I'm just so keen to know how many among us have had that thing about falling in love out of politeness. I was dating this person, and everything was beautiful until he said he loved me. He loved me; I didn't love him back, but I felt like I was hurting his feelings. Now I feel a little pressured to say it. So, did this happen to anyone?

 

[Ja sa bong]

Ladies do this more often in a relationship. You're not supposed to be in a relationship trying to force things or yourself on any man. If the feelings doesn't come naturally, leave the relationship.

 

[Unvarnished]

I guess I will have a way out of such by saying: "I really care for you and am feeling strongly about us, but I need some time to think more about my feelings. With such statements , you would be honest and also allow yourself time to sort out how you really feel.

Trust me, better off being straight and honest than for one of you to be dragged into something which probably isn't real in one way or the other.

 

[ActionAce]

Trust me, I have been through the same thing. There can be just a moment where the hurtful truth comes out. It's always better to let your partner know that you really are not that keen on him. Why would you want to create an uncomfortable situation now only to lead a poor fellow on and hurt him much later?