off-topic Do you believe in love at first sight?

[ActionAce]

It happened to me when I was in high school. There was this brilliant boy in my class. I liked him and really want us to date, but he's not looking in my direction despite how beautiful I am.

He was one of a kind back in the day. Now, I've grown past that!

Do you believe in love at first sight?

 

[Harsh World]

Yes. The moment my eyes locked with my wife's when we first met, I instantly knew she was the one, somehow. Call it intuition, call it what you will.

Here we are 18 years later.

 

[ActionAce]

Yes. The moment my eyes locked with my wife's when we first met, I instantly knew she was the one, somehow. Call it intuition, call it what you will.

Here we are 18 years later.

That's so impressive! I wouldn't say it doesn't work but it does in few cases. I and my husband went through the learning process, it wasn't love at foresight but we've been married since 2013.

 

[Aufscherin]

Do you believe in love at first sight?

I believe in 'lust' at first sight. In my view 'love' (whatever that is) has nothing to do with it. 'Love' is a word that males freely use in order to seduce the gullible female into sex...end of story. Remove the sex for whatever reason and the 'love' that the male professes, vanishes into thin air, and he wil fall in 'love' with another female in short order.

 

[Harsh World]

I believe in 'lust' at first sight. In my view 'love' (whatever that is) has nothing to do with it. 'Love' is a word that males freely use in order to seduce the gullible female into sex...end of story. Remove the sex for whatever reason and the 'love' that the male professes, vanishes into thin air, and he wil fall in 'love' with another female in short order.

This is an overgeneralization of men.

There are many handicapped couples unable to have sex. How would you explain those relationships in this quid-pro-quo model?

 

[ActionAce]

I believe in 'lust' at first sight. In my view 'love' (whatever that is) has nothing to do with it. 'Love' is a word that males freely use in order to seduce the gullible female into sex...end of story. Remove the sex for whatever reason and the 'love' that the male professes, vanishes into thin air, and he wil fall in 'love' with another female in short order.

My friend, you nailed it! That's how most of the men are wired. They go to the next, once sex is out of the equation. Love takes a long process and not a fire brigade thing.

 

[Aufscherin]

There are many handicapped couples unable to have sex. How would you explain those relationships in this quid-pro-quo model?

Co-dependency and double the disability cheques from the govenment. It's a question of simple survival.

 

[Harsh World]

Co-dependency and double the disability cheques from the govenment. It's a question of simple survival.

So, let's put this hypothetical out there.

A man and a woman get married, presumably because the sex is good, as you seem to believe everything is centered around sex. The man just so happens to be a military man and goes on a deployment where an IED takes his dick, balls, and legs. He's able to draw up to around $10,000 a month from the Veterans Affairs because of disabilities incurred in combat, has full medical retirement/insurance/life insurance, and is also eligible to have a full-time caregiver or draw an extra stipend if he chooses his wife to be one. If it's not for the sex anymore, then why are they still together? Why would the marriage last? Why is it the man that needs the sex? Wouldn't the woman leave the man because she's no longer able to have her sexual desires filled? You seem to blame the man, but there are many cases where it's the woman.

Is the wife then the co-dependent in this situation because her financial situation changed by double and she doesn't need to do the dirty work? Or does love exist in this scenario?

 

[Aufscherin]

Wouldn't the woman leave the man because she's no longer able to have her sexual desires filled?

What your little fairy tale left out is that the woman is getting her sex on the side behind the man's back. You left that part out in your hypothetical, you left it out becuse it doesn't fit your narrative. But in reality that is what would happen in *REAL* life..

 

[Bawse]

No I don't. I believe the bond is created with that person over time. You can be attracted to each other at first sight, for sure.

 

[Ja sa bong]

Yes. The moment my eyes locked with my wife's when we first met, I instantly knew she was the one, somehow. Call it intuition, call it what you will.

Here we are 18 years later.

Wow! Congratulations my brother. It's not easy to get married and stay married for 18 years today. With the rate of divorce happening all over the world, it's rare to see couples be together for a very long time.

My girlfriend left our relationship after giving birth. She didn't want to be part of the child's life in any way.

 

[Immortal]

There is no such thing as love at first sight, what you experience at first sight is infatuation. Infatuation is not love. It is more of a sexual feelings.

 

[Ja sa bong]

There is no such thing as love at first sight, what you experience at first sight is infatuation. Infatuation is not love. It is more of a sexual feelings.

Most times, that's the way it is but some people have proven from their own experience and relationships that it's possible to have love at first sight.

 

[MidnightMuse]

I used to, and then I came to understand that what people perceive as love at first sight is either lust or infatuation.

 

[Shawn]

I do.

The first time I saw my now wife, I fell in love with her. I immediately felt like she was the one. I didn't even know if she was married or not. We're married now and have been together for about 6 years.

 

[Ja sa bong]

I do.

The first time I saw my now wife, I fell in love with her. I immediately felt like she was the one. I didn't even know if she was married or not. We're married now and have been together for about 6 years.

I've always known a few people whom were lucky when they meet their better half. It's not always easy because a lot of don't believe in love today to begin with. I'm happy for you and your wife. I know you're enjoying your married life.

 

[Reelz]

I've always known a few people whom were lucky when they meet their better half. It's not always easy because a lot of don't believe in love today to begin with. I'm happy for you and your wife. I know you're enjoying your married life.

In my opinion, two people can glance at each other and fall in love with each other at that moment, but I also do not think that is how it is in most cases. I’d say that loving each other is a process. That doesn't mean that I do not agree that there is the first time you met your partner and you saw the chemistry between you both. It happens all the time..

 

[Fidelia1]

There is nothing like love at first sight. If it ain't lust, it is most likely a deep admiration. I know people get attracted to people because of some attributes they perceive about the person and they work on that attraction and call it love. Love is a commitment that takes more than just attraction to cement.

 

[Niyi Brixx]

Anyone that believes in love at first sight definitely is falling for physical attributes which can easily fail. But for me, I always fall in love with the personality of a person more than the physical attributes of the person. That's why I need constant interaction to fall in love with a person.