discuss Why do some nice girls go for complete arseholes?

[Ashake]

I don't know if anyone got this. I mean, I have seen many pleasant young women permit absolute jerks to enter their hearts. Do these women lack self-esteem or is there other factors that guide their attraction toward these men? Their continuous mistreatment by these toxic partners raised concern. So, it's very necessary for girls to understand their warning signs better because they deserve someone more deserving. What do you see to this?

 

[1stop]

I also noticed this as well. My 2 cents in this matter is that those girls find asshole personalities compelling since they demonstrate confident and charismatic behavior. These characteristics may charm people regardless of any misconduct in their actions.

 

[Reelz]

Nice girls accept people with such character because they fail to understand themselves and their worth. They fail to identify their self-worth and are confused about what love really is. They must learn about themselves and establish clear limits to fight this.

 

[Ja sa bong]

The reason why some girls prefer being in a relationship with some guys who are arseh0les is because they don't like being in relationship with someone who truly loves them as such a person will hold them accountable to anything they do and always try to make them become better. An A-hole will never care about them in the relationship because they are not there for a long time.

 

[Yama]

Can we put the same question another way around. Why do nice boys go after bad girls? Well, they might have vested interest, or they might have something in them that no body sees.

 

[NatureFreak]

Could it be a case of like poles reflect while unlike poles attract?
Seriously though, it is an issue that has been baffling me for years.

 

[Ja sa bong]

Can we put the same question another way around. Why do nice boys go after bad girls? Well, they might have vested interest, or they might have something in them that no body sees.

A man whom with his two open eyes went for a bad girl is not well in the head. It's girls that usually do that with the excuse of being with those guys because they can offer them protection if they were from abusive homes.

 

[Shortie]

This is something I tend to notice often, even from women who have been burned in the past by bad guys and it does leave you wondering why they keep going back.

Something I have noticed is that most of those who tend to give men a chance who shouldn't really be given the chance are the ones that like to see the best in people and want to give them a chance, they also tend to be promised the world and then when they are locked in, they change.

 

[Jason]

Many women like guys who aren't boring, and even some guys like women who aren't boring, so they are attracted to "the bad ones".

 

[Yama]

It's girls that usually do that with the excuse of being with those guys because they can offer them protection

I find this statement quite offensive for womenkind.
Generalization is always bad.

 

[Demon_skeith]

Always try to figure this out myself, I hunted for years to finally find the love of my life and I swear most nice girls were going towards the wrong people.