discuss What's a deal-breaker for you in a relationship ?

[mara]

What’s a deal-breaker for you in a relationship? Whether it’s trust, communication, or something else, what are the main factors that are non-negotiable for you when it comes to love and partnerships?

 

[Aragon Burner]

Deal breakers set you up for failure. We are after all human and we sometimes act on human emotion. In my relationship there are no deal breakers. we would simply talk through anything that ever came up, and includes infidelity. Infidelity need not be a deal breaker for either side. It just depends how much you are able to communicate and talk it out...

 

[Shawn]

Cheating.

If you have to cheat, break off what you have so no one has to get hurt worse.

 

[ActionAce]

In my opinion, it’s not lying and not hurting anybody. I cannot go into relationship with a person that lied or was mean. If I get into some kind of relationship with someone who is truthful, it's a deal breaker for me.

 

[Jason]

If the person is outright cheating and/or is physically or verbally abusive, it's a sign to leave them alone at the least, and possibly terminate the relationship.

 

[NatureFreak]

Bad hygiene. I absolutely can't deal with that. Once I notice habitual dirtiness I'm zooming off.

 

[Augusta]

it is a cheating partner I don't like cheats in anyway. So I would not entertain such

 

[eLdavis]

A situation where my partner does not care about my feelings is a big red flag to me. I want someone that would want to put in effort in understanding me.