off-topic How many kids do you want?

[Ja sa bong]

One of the main reason why I want to get married is to have my own kids and to start my own family. I know some people are child free by choice. They won't want to have kids but they want to be married. It's something I can't wrap my head around easily.

I already have a kid in my relationship, although not yet married but I want at least 3 kids.

How many kids do you want?

 

[Harsh World]

I thought that I wanted none, and saw a physician to start the vasectomy process. I left his office angry that he didn't recommend me for approval because I wasn't two or three of three: 25, have kids already, or have been married for 5~ years.

It's something that I'm now happy to have.

I wanted 2 of my own but ended up with 1 and a stepdaughter.

A little too late for that 2nd one now though.

 

[ActionAce]

I have 3 children already and full stop. I've always wanted 3, two boys and a girl. As faith may have it, that was exactly what I got. My mum wanted me to have more. But hey! I'm done making children.

 

[Ashake]

The decision to have a family is a part of our life. My partner and I are planning on having two. It is important for us to be assured that we shall be able to spend quality time with each child, knowing that each of them deserves love, time and as much resources as is possible. I believe deeply that being a parent is a major responsibility and we should try to do this right.

 

[Harsh World]

I believe deeply that being a parent is a major responsibility and we should try to do this right.

You'll never get everything right, and that's okay. But, start when you feel ready, not to push the decision aside because you don't feel you can do it right. I guarantee you, even if you do it wrong, it all works out in the end if you work together on it.

 

[Reelz]

Marriage is all about affection and togetherness. Some people like having kids, while some do not. But it's okay! The main thing that is most important is to have someone who cares for you and accepts you.

 

[Heatman]

At first, I only wanted to have just one kid but it took so much talk with my mother before I come to change my mind. Right now, I've decided to have max 3 kids.

 

[Ja sa bong]

You'll never get everything right, and that's okay. But, start when you feel ready, not to push the decision aside because you don't feel you can do it right. I guarantee you, even if you do it wrong, it all works out in the end if you work together on it.

The worst mistake one will make would be getting married because others are doing so. Doing this will put an untold pressure on both the couples to the extent the marriage will most likely crash.

 

[Ravenfreak]

My wife and I don't want any kids. We talked about having some when we first started dating, but as we got older we learned they're not for us. We're fine with just a cat!

 

[Harsh World]

The worst mistake one will make would be getting married because others are doing so.

This applies to a lot of situations in life.

Doing this will put an untold pressure on both the couples to the extent the marriage will most likely crash.

And I could definitely see this as the outcome in some marriages.

We're fine with just a cat!

Want another? My wife brought home another stray. If not, I think I'm stuck with 4 of them.

 

[Ja sa bong]

This applies to a lot of situations in life.

Yeah, you're right. It's not only in marriage same thing applies to. If you do anything which others are doing because they seem to be good at it without you being ready for it, it will backfire.

Want another? My wife brought home another stray. If not, I think I'm stuck with 4 of them.

You should start getting ready for a 5th one very soon

 

[Bawse]

I don't want any kids right now. I haven't even found a girlfriend worth keeping, but eventually I want one kid, hopefully a boy that I can teach to be an athlete.

 

[NatureFreak]

2 kids is enough for me. Might not be a good idea to have more considering the present economy.

 

[Alamson]

The maximum I want is three. The responsibilities and sacrifice involved in raising kids are enormous.  That is why some prefer to start having kids later in life when they might have achieved career success or stability. Do it when you think the time is right for you and you are fully prepared. Do not jump on the bandwagon.

 

[MidnightMuse]

2 kids are enough. Have you seen the state of the economy and the world?

 

[theearner]

Two—so I can focus on giving them the attention and resources they need.

 

[King Belieal]

Things are very tough economic wise now. I don't see myself having more than two kids so that I can give them the best. Maybe, if I become a millionaire, I would add a third child.

 

[Lord Severus]

I have decided not to have kids.

Its a personal choice, but here are my reasons

1. I think its a hassle having to care for another on top of your partner.
2. Its an expense
3. Its difficult to find time for all this. I have so many things on my plate that I dont want a child as a limitation on what I can do with my own life.

 

[Fidelia1]

I would love to have just one child or max two children. I have loved children all my life and I am dying to have my own. Kids are beautiful and having mine would add another layer of beauty to my life.