discuss How do you get rid of someone?

[lens]

There are times which require proper knowledge on how to eliminate unwanted individuals from our life. Establishing boundaries and learning to separate from unwanted people is a powerful tool for self-empowerment.

I maintain clarity when delivering messages with respect to those people when I want to make my intentions known. First of all, I recognise my needs and emotions before expressing them. I make sure to use non-aggressive words during communication with people I want to eliminate. I dedicate my time to build relationships which bring a positive impact to my life.

 

[1stop]

You need both physical and mental distance to successfully eliminate someone from your life. You need to carefully evaluate the reasons behind your decision to eliminate this person from your life. It could be due to toxicity or their inability to fulfill your requirements.

Your approach to the situation gets clearer by understanding your real motivations. If it becomes so difficult to do, you should seek support from professionals. That could be the way out.

 

[Shawn]

I'll typically quit going around the person, quit calling them, make up excuses when they want to get together - I'll make it obvious that I'm not interested in friendship anymore.

I've always been the one to break off relationships with lovers when we grow apart as well, there is no reason to continue it and both of us become miserable, especially if the love is gone.

I rarely have to do any of the above, though.

 

[Reelz]

Setting distinct boundaries is possibly the most important method to eliminate individuals who constantly bring negativity to your life.

I’m always very specific about my comfort range and that has been my approach to express the limits of what I will and will not accept.

The key to achieving clarity doesn't have to involve a mean behavior. My attention to self-needs and wants makes me step away from toxic people in my life.

 

[Lord Severus]

There are two options - let them know or ignore.

I dont think ignorance is a good way forward because in that sense, the person being removed will have no clue as far the reasons are concerned and he will not improve also. Additionally, the person who is removing the other one will find it hard to eliminate the person also.

The ideal way forward is, to let them know, in black and white terms after you have taken your decision. Talk to them in plain language and it helps.

 

[Ja sa bong]

Out of sight is out of mind. Eliminate any possibility of being close to the person in real life and also online. If it's possible block them on social media sites, do it or better still unfollow them. It will stop you from seeing anything they do online.