discuss Would you ever allow your partner to be friend with their ex?

[lens]

Do you permit your partner to keep friendship ties with their ex? Based on my way of thinking, I believe all relationships should completely end after breaking up. I have witnessed it and I'm sure it is never an experience you would ever pray for.

My partner maintains a long-term friendship with her previous partner and that induces a lot of negative thoughts. She tells me their friendship remains just as mere friends yet I still have concerns about it.

I expressed my concern to her about this issue but received only criticism for being untrustworthy. So,.I decided to stop been overbearing. What would you do in such situation?

 

[ActionAce]

The feeling of uncertainty that I had over my partner's relationship with an ex became very stressful for both us. The friendship between my partner and his ex became a condition that I could no longer accept in our relationship. It makes me feel doubtful about my importance.

Every relationship requires putting your emotional comfort first therefore you should draw clear boundaries whenever friendship with an ex becomes unhealthy.

 

[Reelz]

People can maintain ex-friendship relationships and I do not think it should jeopardize their integrity in their current relationships.

If you had a candid communication with your partner, you can discuss your emotions and worries about the situation. What I means is - both partners should confront the insecurity issues about friendship between their exes in order to resolve these emotions mutually.

They will only trust each other when they have a shared commitment to respect one another and to have understanding.