discuss Do you believe you've "found yourself" or built yourself?

[sunisstarstoo]

I used to strongly hold the belief that I could hammer myself into a particular type of person. Now, as I continuously fight against the grain of what comes naturally, I'm not quite as sure. It is probably some combination of the two, nature and nurture 'n all that.
I'm curious what you guys think and if you'd like to share some examples from your life.

 

[Maina]

Only few people can actually find themselves, moat people hqve to build themselves. I am building my self.